Showing posts with label Morals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Morals. Show all posts

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Agenda, Docket, Itinerary or Schedule

Agenda, Docket, Itinerary or Schedule
Maybe it is because I Home Educate my kids or maybe it is because I do not work out side my home or maybe it is just me but I seldom take the weekends off. That special weekend feeling of: staying up late or
getting to sleep in or
watching Saturday morning cartoons or
even going to some special place is almost forgotten.

I do not believe that my kids understand "Weekend" or why others worship it or even why people (and Orange Cats) hate Mondays.

We don't necessarily wake up in the morning or go to sleep at night but we live by my Calendar. We definitely have plans. March is always very busy for us. We weekly attend two separate Homeschooling groups. Twice a month each child attends a Camp Fire USA group for their age.  We have play dates.  We visit Busch Gardens and Seaworld frequently. Then as the weather warms we also incorporate 3-7 visits to the beach each week.

Yet, I get confused as to what day of the week it is.  If it weren't for some rather silly mother's that had all penciled in mustaches, I would have missed the fact that it was actually LEAP day February 29, 2012 this week.

You didn't know that you were supposed to draw a mustache on your upper lip for Leap Day? It was explained to me this way: draw a mustache on Leap day because a drawn  mustache looks French, frogs are French and frogs leap. I told you that they are silly.

Sunday, February 26, 2012

My Romantic Husband

Family, Life on Life's Terms, Morals, Values, Romance, Romantic Husband, New Years Eve
For New Years Eve, I tried to have a romantic dinner. I went to a friends house and got dressed in my best dress that fits. She helped me straighten my newly cut and colored hair (by another friend). Her daughter helped me by putting on "smokey eyes" makeup. I even borrowed some wonderful perfume.  I planned a lovely dinner of steak, potato and salad with sparkling apple cider for the 4 of us (my darling husband and my 2 children). As I arrived home all the little girls four 5 and 6 year old girls come running to my car to tell me how pretty I look and how I smell nice. It was nice to be treated like a superstar. I bet this is how Dora the Explorer feels.
Family, Life on Life's Terms, Morals, Values, Romance, Romantic Husband, New Years Eve
My friend that helped me get dressed asked me what my husband said about my dress-up for New Years Eve. Initially, my husband said nothing. As far as I can tell he doesn't even look at me. So I asked him how I looked and he said I looked "cute." Not exactly the look I was going for but it does explain why I am only attractive to 6 year old girls.

My friend then suggested that my husband wasn't romantic. See that's the funny thing, my husband is romantic. He is very romantic.

We met in August of 1987 and started dating soon after. We married in December of 1994. My darling husband is romantic. He is kind and thoughtful. He is generous and loving. In all those years, he has never forgotten an opportunity to give me a gift. He has even given me presents for HIS birthday. He has written me love letters. He has brought me flowers. He records TV shows that he thinks I'll like. He saves magazine articles for me to read. He sends me emails and texts each day offering information and words of support. Although he does tell me frequently that he loves me, he rarely comments on my appearance.

So is my husband romantic? Absolutely. Now for me, am I a romantic? That's another story for another day.

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Secular Co-op Road Trip

H.O.P. Home School Co-op
Total we spend the day at a Home School Co-op. That's what its called. It isn't anything like how I pictured school co-operatives 13 years ago when I first read about them. I pictured 4 families getting together. Three parents would stay and one parent would have that time off or something like that. In the area that I live, there are many home school co-ops. Most are based on common religions. Those families keep their children out of the school system to reinforce their beliefs. We are secular home educators. I drive all over the place. Every other Tuesday I drive an hour for Camp Fire USA. Then twice more I drive an hour to two different secular co-ops.

Wish You Were Here!
With all that driving you would think that I would be tired of driving but I have found myself lately day-dreaming of my next road trip. I have to admit I was going to try to sneak in a trip to the snow this winter. Apparently there will be no winter so that may have to wait. My daughter wants to go camping again in the Florida Keys. We went early last summer. I really wish I had sent a post card that said "Drove through the night Thursday night with the kids fighting the whole way. Friday morning, it was so hot that I thought I was going to pass out as I set up the tent. Friday night, the seam in our air mattress broke and quickly left us sleeping on the ground. Saturday morning, I got stung by a wasp on my leg. Saturday afternoon I brushed my back and arms against Fire Coral as I was snorkeling. Then Sunday morning it started to rain as we were packing.
Having a great time wish you were here."

Monday, December 8, 2008

Goldie Locks and the Three Bears

Both of my children enjoy being read to and having stories told to them. It bothers me that most of the TV shows and books have lost the morals of the stories. Of course some stories do not have morals really but if they did why not introduce them back into the story. Also, some of the stories that I grew up with, like Goldie Locks and the Three Bears, I did not like the moral that I hear so I have added a little here and there to make a better story. When I was growing up I thought that the moral of Goldie Locks and the Three Bears was that if you are Blond-Haired Blue-Eyed Girl you can break-in, steal, and destroy other peoples property with no consequences. While it may be true to some degree, this is not the kind of ideals I want to repeat, over and over to my children.

Goldie Locks and the Three Bears

Once upon a time there was a little girl who was lost in the woods. She had been walking all night and was scared, lost, tired, hungry and chilled all the way to her bones. As she walked, the sun started to rise and she also started to smell something delicious. She let the smell lead her to a lovely cottage that was adorned just like a doll's house would be. She went to the door and knocked and as she knocked the door opened because it hadn't been shut well. She called, "hello, is anyone home?" but no one answered. She called again and as she leaned in she could see the table with 3 bowls sitting there with the steam rising out of them. She went in inside slowly calling again but when no one answered she sat down at the table in front of the biggest bowl. She stirred the big bowl of oatmeal. As hungry as she was, she knew she could never finish all of that oatmeal so she slid over to the next chair. She stirred the medium sized bowl of oatmeal. Again she looked at the size of the bowl. It was smaller than the first but it was still more than a little girl could eat. The third and last bowl however was the smallest of all and looked just right. She sat down and ate the whole bowl of oatmeal. The oatmeal not only made her feel full it also made her feel warm and the tiredness of all that walking really started to set in. She went into the next room and started to sit down. The first chair was huge and overstuffed. Goldilocks felt like she was swallowed up in it. It was too soft. The second chair was smaller but as she sat down she realized there was no stuffing at all. It was too hard. The third chair was the smallest. It looked like it had been made for a child. As she sat down, she must have sat down too hard because the chair crumbled under her weight. Now she cried because she had broken such a beautiful chair. She was so tired and lost and alone. She noticed a loft and climbed up to find three beds. The first bed was huge. She climbed in and found it was too soft. The second bed was smaller but it was too hard. The third bed was the smallest of all. She laid down and fell right to sleep.

Once upon a time there were three bears: a great big Pappa Bear, a medium sized Mama Bear and a little bitty Baby Bear. Mama Bear got up, as she did every morning, and made them each some oatmeal. As she looked out the window she remembered seeing ripe blackberries nearby and she convinced Papa Bear and Baby Bear to join her for a walk to collect black berries while their oatmeal cooled. They had a great walk and even Baby Bear collected more berries than he ate. Right away as they returned to their storybook home, they knew something was wrong when the door stood wide open. Pappa Bear exclaimed in his loud deep Pappa Bear voice, " someone has been eating my oatmeal." Mamma Bear exclaimed in her medium Mamma Bear voice, "someone has been eating my oatmeal." Then Baby Bear cried in his squeaky Baby Bear voice, "someone has been eating my oatmeal and it's all gone!" They walked into the sitting room where Pappa Bear exclaimed in his loud deep Pappa Bear voice, " someone has been sitting my chair." Mamma Bear exclaimed in her medium Mamma Bear voice, "someone has been sitting my chair." Then Baby Bear cried in his squeaky Baby Bear voice, "someone has been sitting my chair and it's all broken!" After looking around for a minute quietly they decided to look in the loft. Pappa Bear exclaimed in his loud deep Pappa Bear voice, " someone has been sleeping in my bed." Mamma Bear exclaimed in her medium Mamma Bear voice, "someone has been sleeping in my bed." Then Baby Bear cried in his squeaky Baby Bear voice, "someone has been sleeping in my bed and she still is!"

Maybe it was the squeaky sound of Baby Bear's voice but Goldie Locks startled right up. There she was sitting before three wild bears. She was more afraid than ever. She turned and looked out of the open window and she could see part of the forest that she recognized. She leaped from the loft window and ran as fast as she could.

Late that winter as the bears still slumbered in their hibernation, Goldie Locks returned to the little cottage. She planted several cherry trees, and blackberry and blueberry bushes. Then she left a new chair a little bigger than the one she had broken.

She was so sorry for all the damage she had done and she so wanted to thank the bear family. Without them she may have been lost in the woods forever.

The End.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Humpty Dumpty

The history (or herstory) of Humpty Dumpty is uncertain. (Many versions are listed here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Humpty_Dumpty ) I do agree that the lesson for children is that some changes are irreversible. (Here is an adult comedy with profanity that addresses Humpty Dumpty's fate http://www.boreme.com/boreme/funny-2007/ricky-gervais-humpty-dumpty-p1.php)

So here is the original Humpty Dumpty nursery rhyme or lyrics:

Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall.
Humpty Dumpty had a great fall.
All the king's horses and all the king's men
Couldn't put Humpty together again.

And here are the original lyrics my son wrote last summer (at aged 10):

Humpty Dumpty worked in a Mall.
Humpty Dumpty had a great fall.
All the Mall's lawyers and all the Mall's men
Had egg for breakfast again and again.

Now the new moral is the big establishments will eat you up!